Weak Erection, Premature Ejaculation ; 3 DOs and 3 DON'Ts for when your man's penis can't get up

Sometimes things just seem to go wrong when lovers are ready to tango.

Two naked bodies ready to link up and make some orgasms together...then the penis goes on vacation.

Either the man can't get it up sufficiently or he can't keep it up once it manages to get up — bad, absolutely terrible, in both cases.

When it happens, the shame and embarrassment men feel cannot be expressed, especially when it is with a new woman that they're trying to impress.

Now, if you experience this with your boyfriend, there are two things you should DO and two important DON'Ts.

DON'Ts:

1. Don't ask him if it has happened before. No, no no, that is like asking him if his penis is any good at all. Even if he says no, you'll still not get a solution and a 'yes' will raise the question of his manliness. Making him to feel terrible will make it harder to find a solution.
2. Don't say or act like you're the one causing the problem. If a man is suffering weak erection or premature ejaculation, it is almost certainly not about you. He may be in need of medical attention, he is just stressed, having anxieties, or it has been a while since he last had sex.
3. Don't get angry or walk away. Sometimes, because you feel let down, you might be tempted to get angry and say nasty things. This may degenerate into a fight because a man's erectile problem is a bullet to his pride. Walking away will be a blow in the gut.

DOs:

1. Try to help him out. There are things you can do to help a man get over the problem. For weak erection for example, giving him a hand massage or oral can go a long way. For premature ejaculation, you guys can both do the stop-start technique which works. You can just ask if you can do this or that to him.
2. Make him relax and regain his confidence. Like mentioned earlier, being stressed or anxious can cause these problems. So you can suggest (initiate) a different form of sex that does not require penetration. You could ask him to touch you or you touch him instead. You could also both try the 69.
3. Lovingly suggest seeking medical attention. If the problem persists after trying everything over a number of days, not just once, then you are in the best position to suggest medical attention. Do it nicely and tell him you can't wait to tumble again.

Sex is between two people, so the problem of one is the problem of the other, especially if its not casual, one-night stand.

By the way, sex without penetration can be enjoyable too.